Kyle Coope

1987 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth13/05/1987
Date of Death09/03/2008
Visitors25,010 since 10/03/2008
Creator
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Kyle was a lovely, young, outgoing and funny guy.

He died tragically on Sunday 9th March in Leeds.
kyle is a very much loved son,brother,grandson,nephew and friend.
He will be very sadly missed by his family, all his friends from Bar Fibre and Q C in Leeds,work
friends and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.xx
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

To some the pain of living
Becomes to much to bear
He chose to end his life but
That does'nt mean he didn't care

The blanket of depression
Shrouds the mind in misery
And suffocating blackness
Is all that he could see

Please know though you are grieving
There was nothing you could do
He chose this way to end his pain
Not to escape from you

Let tears wash away your anger
Allow your aching heart to grieve
Keep your memories of the good times
Then set his spirit free

loved and missed so much every minute of every day,always and forever.xxxx

i would like to say a very big thank you to everyone who leaves tributes,candles and pictures.xxxx

L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ
f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

my darling kyle,I miss you so much.You are my first thought when i wake each day,you are constantley
in my thoughts throughout each day.You are always my last thought when the day ends.I love you so
much.Always and forever your heartbroken mum.XxXx

L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ
f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily
life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and
ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear
before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes,
I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the
climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb
ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they
are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they
really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child
who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of
grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see,
they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance,
rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have
no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better,
to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The
'person' who is emerging from the pit.

Unknown Author


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All My Love

Kyle, thinking of you as always, lots and lots of love Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sam (Friend) September 21, 2009

19TH SEPTEMBER 2009



★ I picked a star to wish upon,from all the stars above,I closed my eyes and made a wish,to send you lots of love.★

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JUST TO LET YOU KNOW I AM GOING INTO HOSPITAL ON TUESDAY, SO I WILL BE MISSING FOR A FEW DAYS. WOULD YOU PLEASE KEEP DANIEL IN YOUR THOUGHTS AND SEND HIM YOUR LOVE UNTIL I RETURN.WITH LOVE AND THANKS ALWAYS, JUDE. X X


Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 19, 2009

hiya sweetheart.Well i am now 40.. im not bothered about the age,just sooooooooooooooooooooooo sad that your not here.This is my second birthday without you,this year is no easier than last year.In the morning,instead of me recieving flowers from you it will be me giving them to you.words can't describe how much i miss you.I have a constant aching.We are going for a meal,but its so hard.I try my best to look happy,but kyle i am so sad.They say life begins at 40,not for me.I still find it hard to write to you on here.It makes it so real.i love and miss you so much kyle.night night,love you.mum.xXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx

Nicola Mum Of Kyle Coope (Mum) September 18, 2009



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Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 17, 2009

Thinking Of You

Hello Kyle, I think about you every day, Daniel and I often talk about you, he misses you so much, as do we all, all my love always Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sam (Friend) September 15, 2009



12TH SEPTEMBER 2009

With Love. xXx

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Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 12, 2009

Secret Garden…All Poetry

Fresh morning dew, still dripping from the rose,
the blue birds sing their wishful, songs of hopes.
My garden has still breath - it alone knows,
the secrets that are bound with grassy ropes.
Pure love is endless – the bird’s sing of truth,
sweet blossoms bow so humbly, to their voice.
They rest in old age and then dance in youth,
blameless and pure of heart - they all rejoice.
They're out of sight - hidden - like precious gems,
the rainbows do yield, while all time transcends.
The roses stand tall on their thorny stems,
as giving thanks, to their fair feathered friends.

My secret garden cast your spell in mist.
Mark down your truths on an unending list.

Wishing you and mum a lovely evening, i am sure you will be close by....

God Bless.

Gail Danny'S Mum (Friend) September 11, 2009

A present for you xx

Wait til you see what i have got for you!!!!!!

Romney Tedford (Friend) September 10, 2009

Sorry no candles

Hiya Kyle

I am really sorry that i have not lit candles every day but the internet is down and i have not been at work for a few days so i cud not get on - it doesnt mean you have not been constantly in my thoughts tho - as always i love and miss you forever Kyle xxxx

Romney Tedford (Friend) September 9, 2009

3rd September 2009

☆•☆ A TENDER REPLY ☆•☆

♥ I Promise ♥

(Author Unknown)

I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.

I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.

I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.

I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.


Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 3, 2009
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