Kyle Coope

1987 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth13/05/1987
Date of Death09/03/2008
Visitors25,010 since 10/03/2008
Creator
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Kyle was a lovely, young, outgoing and funny guy.

He died tragically on Sunday 9th March in Leeds.
kyle is a very much loved son,brother,grandson,nephew and friend.
He will be very sadly missed by his family, all his friends from Bar Fibre and Q C in Leeds,work
friends and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.xx
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

To some the pain of living
Becomes to much to bear
He chose to end his life but
That does'nt mean he didn't care

The blanket of depression
Shrouds the mind in misery
And suffocating blackness
Is all that he could see

Please know though you are grieving
There was nothing you could do
He chose this way to end his pain
Not to escape from you

Let tears wash away your anger
Allow your aching heart to grieve
Keep your memories of the good times
Then set his spirit free

loved and missed so much every minute of every day,always and forever.xxxx

i would like to say a very big thank you to everyone who leaves tributes,candles and pictures.xxxx

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f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

my darling kyle,I miss you so much.You are my first thought when i wake each day,you are constantley
in my thoughts throughout each day.You are always my last thought when the day ends.I love you so
much.Always and forever your heartbroken mum.XxXx

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f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily
life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and
ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear
before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes,
I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the
climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb
ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they
are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they
really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child
who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of
grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see,
they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance,
rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have
no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better,
to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The
'person' who is emerging from the pit.

Unknown Author


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LOVE , HUGS AND KISSES FROM JUDE.XX


Jude Swaddle (Friend) September 2, 2009

Night night precious Angel..
Now it's time for bed
Just you snuggle up..
And rest your beautiful head

Cuddle up with all the Angels..
As I say Goodnight..
Just you rest your Angel wings..
And have sweet dreams 'til morning light

I will blow you Night night kisses..
As they are so full of love
So catch my kisses and have sweet dreams..
Precious Angel up above


copyright Jackie Thomas 31/08/09.

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) September 1, 2009

† Touch Of An Angel †

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I felt an angel's touch today,
in the midst of my despair.
Twas sent by God, Himself, to say,
"be still and know I'm there."

To lead through days of darkness,
and light your way with love.
Be still and know, deep in your heart,
I'm reigning from above.

I'll lift you when you stumble,
I'm with you all the time.
I understand and share your pain;
remember child of mine,

The end is coming quickly;
the Lord shall soon appear.
To resurrect the righteous ones,
I love and hold so dear.

And bring them home, into a place,
where broken hearts are healed.
And promises I made to you,
will finally be fulfilled.

This life is but a spot in time,
a place for lessons learned.
Heaven holds the key to all,
your broken spirit yearns.

I sent an angel down today,
to show my words are true.
You're never far, beyond the arms,
of all God's love for you.

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� - Judy Crawford

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) August 30, 2009

~~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ Someday ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Someday once more we'll meet you,
No-one knows just when,
We'll meet in a lovely place,
Never to part again.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Someday once more,we'll meet you
And feel your tender touch,
And tell you again what you've always known,
That we love you very much.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
copyright? Ingrid Aspey April 2009

~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ One Day ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~


love always cathy xxx

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) August 26, 2009

Hello

Hi Kyle, thinking of you always, all my love Sam xxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Sam (Friend) August 24, 2009

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There are Angels all around us..
Watching us with love
They are our gift from God..
In heaven up above

All our Angels love us..
Each and everyone
They journey is not over..
It's only just begun

Our Angels keep us safe..
Away from any harm
Their halos glow with beauty..
And lots of love and charm

When your feeling low..
Just remember this..
Your Angel walks beside you..
Your Angel that you miss

If you look all around you..
And feel warmth and love..
God has sent your Angel down..
From heaven up above


copyright? Jackie Thomas 22/08/09/

love always cathy xxx

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) August 23, 2009

Friend

Hey Kyle, just thought i'd say hi, my friend died the other day n i've put him on here too. i'm looking after steph she misses you so much, always talks about you. i hope your ok looking down on us all, miss you mate love you loads love lisa xxxxxxxx

Lisa Taylor (Close Friend) August 23, 2009

~~~~ White Feather ~~~~

A gap in the curtain
Let in the light
As I lay on my pillow
Sleeping last night

I opened my eyes
The light was so bright
I was sure that I heard you
Whisper night night

A little white feather
tickled my nose
Where did it come from
Do you suppose

Had you been to visit
To whisper night night
And left the white feather
I think that you might

Copyright Ingrid Aspey 22/8/09

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) August 22, 2009

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goodnite angel sleep tight love to your family love always cathy xx

Kathleen Sutherland (GTS Friend) August 21, 2009

Life is still continuing
It all seems very wrong
How am I supposed to live
When I'm not that very strong?

I often sit and question
Why you went away
Recalling every moment
Of that dreadful day

My heart is constantly longing
My arms are open wide
Just wishing for one second
To have you by my side

You see I still question
Why you left that day
Constantly trying to tell myself
You haven't gone away


x

Karen Richards August 18, 2009
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