Kyle Coope

1987 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth13/05/1987
Date of Death09/03/2008
Visitors25,009 since 10/03/2008
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Kyle was a lovely, young, outgoing and funny guy.

He died tragically on Sunday 9th March in Leeds.
kyle is a very much loved son,brother,grandson,nephew and friend.
He will be very sadly missed by his family, all his friends from Bar Fibre and Q C in Leeds,work
friends and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.xx
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

To some the pain of living
Becomes to much to bear
He chose to end his life but
That does'nt mean he didn't care

The blanket of depression
Shrouds the mind in misery
And suffocating blackness
Is all that he could see

Please know though you are grieving
There was nothing you could do
He chose this way to end his pain
Not to escape from you

Let tears wash away your anger
Allow your aching heart to grieve
Keep your memories of the good times
Then set his spirit free

loved and missed so much every minute of every day,always and forever.xxxx

i would like to say a very big thank you to everyone who leaves tributes,candles and pictures.xxxx

L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉr L٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ
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my darling kyle,I miss you so much.You are my first thought when i wake each day,you are constantley
in my thoughts throughout each day.You are always my last thought when the day ends.I love you so
much.Always and forever your heartbroken mum.XxXx

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f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily
life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and
ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear
before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes,
I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the
climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb
ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they
are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they
really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child
who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of
grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see,
they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance,
rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have
no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better,
to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The
'person' who is emerging from the pit.

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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

LIKE A COMET,,,,,,BLAZING CROSS THE EVENING SKY,
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A RAINBOW,FADING IN THE COMING NIGHT,
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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SHINING,SPARKLING,AND SPLENDIDLY BRIGHT.
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HERE ONE DAY.,,.GONE ONE NIGHT.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A CLOTH OF SUNLIGHT ON A CLOUDY AFTERNOON.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A CASTLE BUILT UPON A SANDY BEACH.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A PERFECT LOVELY FLOWER, THAT IS
JUST BEYOND YOU"RE REACH.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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BORN TO LIVE IN SHEER DELIGHT,
HERE ONE DAY,GONE BY NIGHT.
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GONE TOO SOON!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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LIKE A SUNSET DAZZLED BY THE RISING MOON.
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GONE TOO SOON.

[A MICHAEL JACKSONG SONG].R.I.P..

R.I.P.ANGEL.XXXX

Angie Blyth August 16, 2009

Hiya Kyle
I am really sorry that i havent been to see you this weekend but it is really hard cos i always seem to have a child attatched to me. It doesnt mean i am thinking of you any less cos i think about you all the time x i will try to come during the week - i love you as always Kyle xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 16, 2009

15TH AUGUST 2009

I AM OFF MY HOLIDAYS TODAY FOR 2 WEEKS, BUT YOU AND YOUR ANGELS WILL BE IN MY THOUGHTS. PLEASE COULD YOU SEND YOUR LOVE AND PRAYERS TO DANIEL FOR ME?
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Jude Swaddle (Friend) August 15, 2009

hi kyle

just thought id write to you i came to see you last week and brought you some flowers hope you liked them,i tood farah to leeds pride other week for you and took a pik so guna post it to you its manchester ride soon each time i go it reminds me of you. when we sat on the wall chattin and when caused mayhem on the coach lol and wen we danced about in mantos lol it all reminds mee off you.im missing u so much jus wish i could see you. any one guna get off love you loads think about you every day love you loads ... love steph.xxxxxxx

Steph Hayes (Close Friend) August 13, 2009

"Our birth is but a sleep and a forgetting;
The soul that rises with us, our life's star,
Hath had elsewhere its setting,
And cometh from afar;
Not in entire forgetfulness,
And not in utter nakedness,
But railing clouds of glory do we come
From God, who is our home."
-William Wordsworth

I believe when we return home and God looks us over, he is not searching for how many degrees or how many medals we have won, or how much riches we have gathered. He is looking for our scars to heal.

God Bless.

Gail Danny'S Mum (Friend) August 13, 2009

Star

Hiya Kyle

Had a meeting this morning about the garden - at last it looks as tho something might actually happen!!! After the meeting, i opened a draw and there was our star! Love you and miss you always and forever Kyle - everyday i wish you were still here xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 13, 2009

Hi Kyle, i went to the comedy club a couple of weeks ago and i thought of you so much since,do you remember that night that we all went for carlys birthday? it was so funny you gave that comedian as much back.we had a lovely evening,you sat with me talking about your mum with such love and pride, what a lovely person you were to have around, i enjoyed every minute i spent with you ,you were so funny,you are so very sadly missed kyle. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Debbie James Carly (Friend) August 11, 2009

Good Morning

Thinking of you always Kyle, all my love, Sam xxxxxxx

Sam (Friend) August 11, 2009

Our love is un-conditonal
Our love we give to you
But once you have left us
What are we meant to do?

We spend our days
Just dreaming of the times when you were here
Just longing for that time again
When we held you oh so near

While we wait again
With our arms held open wide
We know that you are forever
Walking by our side

Karen Richards August 11, 2009

Hi Kyle
We still cant find our star! Pls will u make sure that todays events sort themselves out without a problem - i will be coming to join u otherwise!!!! luv ya always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 10, 2009
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