Kyle Coope

1987 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth13/05/1987
Date of Death09/03/2008
Visitors25,010 since 10/03/2008
Creator
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Kyle was a lovely, young, outgoing and funny guy.

He died tragically on Sunday 9th March in Leeds.
kyle is a very much loved son,brother,grandson,nephew and friend.
He will be very sadly missed by his family, all his friends from Bar Fibre and Q C in Leeds,work
friends and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.xx
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

To some the pain of living
Becomes to much to bear
He chose to end his life but
That does'nt mean he didn't care

The blanket of depression
Shrouds the mind in misery
And suffocating blackness
Is all that he could see

Please know though you are grieving
There was nothing you could do
He chose this way to end his pain
Not to escape from you

Let tears wash away your anger
Allow your aching heart to grieve
Keep your memories of the good times
Then set his spirit free

loved and missed so much every minute of every day,always and forever.xxxx

i would like to say a very big thank you to everyone who leaves tributes,candles and pictures.xxxx

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f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

my darling kyle,I miss you so much.You are my first thought when i wake each day,you are constantley
in my thoughts throughout each day.You are always my last thought when the day ends.I love you so
much.Always and forever your heartbroken mum.XxXx

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f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻﻉ√٥υ f٥гﻉ√ﻉrL٥ﻻ ﻉ√٥υ

The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily
life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and
ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear
before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes,
I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the
climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb
ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they
are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they
really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child
who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of
grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see,
they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance,
rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have
no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better,
to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The
'person' who is emerging from the pit.

Unknown Author


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8TH AUGUST 2009.

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★ FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS. ★

★ FOREVER IN OUR THOUGHTS. ★

★ FOREVER IN OUR PRAYERS. ★

★ FOREVER IN OUR SOULS. ★

★ WE WILL NEVER, EVER, FORGET YOU. ★


♥ LOVE JUDE. X


Jude Swaddle (Friend) August 8, 2009

6TH AUGUST 2009

★ Goodnight and God Bless. ★

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★ I picked a star to wish upon,from all the stars above,I closed my eyes and made a wish,to send you lots of love. Jude. x ★


Jude Swaddle (Friend) August 6, 2009

our star

Hi Kyle
We still dont know where u r but wherever it is, u r helping Jean!!! Love ya and miss ya always Kyle xx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 6, 2009

our team star

Hiya Kyle

Me and Jean are searching for you but cant find you - where are you?? we both need you xx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 4, 2009

2ND AUGUST 2009

~~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ Someday ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Someday once more we'll meet you,
No-one knows just when,
We'll meet in a lovely place,
Never to part again.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
Someday once more,we'll meet you
And feel your tender touch,
And tell you again what you've always known,
That we love you very much.
⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰
copyright� Ingrid Aspey April 2009

~~~~~~~~~~ ♥ One Day ♥ ~~~~~~~~~~~


SENDING YOU SUNDAY BLESSINGS, WITH LOVE. X X

⊱♥⊰~⊱♥⊰


Jude Swaddle (Friend) August 2, 2009

miss you sooooooooooo much.xXx

hiya sweetheart,thought id let you know Tom rang me today.Sounds like he's enjoying his new life in Australia.He asked me if i wanted to go over in December.Dont know when but i will go.I do miss him,its strange but he became like a link to you.He told me about all the things you and he did,dont worry im sure he didnt tell me everything!.When i was having a bad day i would go and have a coffee with him,he would always make me smile with tales of you...
I dont know why but when i was with him it made me feel closer to you.Now i miss you both,but at least i can speak to Tom.I wish so much i could speak to you kyle,i know i do but i never get a reply.I miss you so much.I have a video of you on my phone that steph did on one of your nights out.I keep playing it just to hear you voice.Your singing and dancing around,you look so happy.I cry every time i watch it,which is most days.Its now nearly 17mths,it seems like 17yrs.I love you so much kyle.Well it leeds pride tomorrow,the 2nd you've missed.I cant go because im working.Farrah is going though,i think she's meeting steph.She still messages me to see how i am.im going to meet up with her soon,to catch up on things.I havnt seen James since your birthday.i will have to message him to see how he is.Havnt seen anything of Carly or Emma for ages,but im sure theire ok.Anyway sweetheart its taken me ages to type this because as usual i end up crying,so i will say night night love you.Always and forever.mum.xXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXxXx
A visit in my dreams would help.xXx

Nicola Mum Of Kyle Coope (Mum) August 1, 2009

Hiya Kyle

Claire came over on \friday with baby LJ - he is very cute! She is as blonde as ever lol
i came to c u after she went - love the butterflies - they look great
still think of you every day and miss ya loads - always will Kyle xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Romney Tedford (Friend) August 1, 2009



31ST JULY 2009

. ♥ ANGELS OF THE SKY .......... ♥

BEAUTIFUL ANGEL OF THE SKY
IN OUR HEARTS YOU DID NOT DIE
THE LORD TOOK YOU INTO HIS EMBRACE
HE LOOKS DOWN AT YOUR PERFECT FACE
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HE GIVES HIS NEW ANGEL A LITTLE KISS
HE SAYS MY LITTLE ONE I PROMISE YOU THIS
THAT I WILL GIVE YOU WINGS TO FLY
NOW YOU ARE FREE TO FLY SO HIGH
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SPREAD YOUR ANGEL DUST UPON THE GROUND
TO LET YOUR FAMILY KNOW YOU ARE STILL AROUND
FOR I WILL KEEP YOU SAFE IN HEAVEN WITH ME
YOUR SPIRIT SAYS ON EARTH FOR ALL TO SEE
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WHEN THE PURE WHITE BUTTERFLY GOES DANCING BY
THAT IS WHERE YOUR SPIRIT WILL LIE
SWEET LTTLE ANGEL OF THE SKIES
JUST SEE HOW HIGH AN ANGEL FLYS......
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GOODNIGHT SWEET ANGEL. X

. ♥ copyright� Rosalind Roberts. ♥


Jude Swaddle (Friend) July 31, 2009

STAR.xXx

I have just named a star after you.
KYLE COOPE...THE BRIGHTEST STAR IN THE SKY.xXxXx
Kyle i love and miss you every minute of every day.Always and forever.XxXxXxXxX

Nicola Mum Of Kyle Coope (Mum) July 29, 2009

It's raining outside..
So cold and wet
Is it sunny in heaven?
It is I bet

Water falls from the sky..
Just like my tears..
That I cry

I cry so much..
And I hurt with pain
Since you went to heaven..
I've not been the same

I miss you so much..
As the days go by
My tears fall slowly..
As I wipe my eyes

I think of you..
With joy and pride
Please keep me safe..
And walk by my side

I look up to the sky..
As I think of you with love
My sweet Angel..
In heaven above


copyright Jackie Thomas 29/07/09.

Love and Hugs Barbara xx

Barbara Richard Littles Mum (GTS Friend) July 29, 2009
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