Kyle Coope

1987 - 2008
LocationLeeds
Age20 years
Cause of DeathSuicide
Date of Birth13/05/1987
Date of Death09/03/2008
Visitors25,010 since 10/03/2008
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Kyle was a lovely, young, outgoing and funny guy.

He died tragically on Sunday 9th March in Leeds.
kyle is a very much loved son,brother,grandson,nephew and friend.
He will be very sadly missed by his family, all his friends from Bar Fibre and Q C in Leeds,work
friends and anyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.xx
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ... Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ...Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ

To some the pain of living
Becomes to much to bear
He chose to end his life but
That does'nt mean he didn't care

The blanket of depression
Shrouds the mind in misery
And suffocating blackness
Is all that he could see

Please know though you are grieving
There was nothing you could do
He chose this way to end his pain
Not to escape from you

Let tears wash away your anger
Allow your aching heart to grieve
Keep your memories of the good times
Then set his spirit free

loved and missed so much every minute of every day,always and forever.xxxx

i would like to say a very big thank you to everyone who leaves tributes,candles and pictures.xxxx

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my darling kyle,I miss you so much.You are my first thought when i wake each day,you are constantley
in my thoughts throughout each day.You are always my last thought when the day ends.I love you so
much.Always and forever your heartbroken mum.XxXx

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The Pit of Grief

The day my child died, I fell into the pit of grief. My friends watched me struggle through daily
life; waiting for the person I once was to arise from the pit, not realizing 'she' is gone forever.

The pit is full of darkness, heartache and despair; it paralyzes your thoughts, movements and
ability to ration. The pit leaves you forever changed, unable to surface the person you once were.

Some of my pre-grief friends gather around the top of the pit, waiting for the old me to appear
before their eyes, not understanding what’s taking me so long to emerge. After all, in their eyes,
I’ve been in the pit for quite sometime. Yet in my eyes, it seems as if I fell in only yesterday.

Not all of my pre-grief friends are gathered around the top of the pit. Some are helping me with the
climb out of the darkness. They climb side by side with me from time to time, but mostly they climb
ahead of me, waiting patiently at each plateau. Even with these friends I sometimes wonder if they
are also waiting for the pre-grief me to magically appear before their eyes.

Then there are the casual acquaintances, you know the ones who say 'Hi, how are you?' when they
really don't care or really want to know. These are the people who sigh in relief, that is my child
who died and not theirs. You know ... the 'better them, than me' attitude.

My post-grief friends are the ones who climb with me, side by side, inch by inch, out of the pit of
grief. They have no way of comparing the pit climbed to the pre-grief person I once was. You see,
they started at the bottom of the pit with me. They are able to reassure me when I need reassurance,
rest when I need resting, and encourage me to move forward when I don't have the strength. They have
no expectations, no memories and no recollection of how I 'should' be. They want me to get better,
to smile more often and find joy in life, but they also accepted the person I’ve become. The
'person' who is emerging from the pit.

Unknown Author


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Always.x

Morning Kyle :)
Hpe you are okay n enjoyed the one week of summer thats been and gone lol.
Jordan's broken his arm..he fell off a ladder at work..i hope it gets better for wen we go on hol..
We go on the 4th of Sep..cant wait!! :D
Pls watch over him Kyle n keep him safe always.
You are loved n missed forever..
~~Catherine~~
x x x x x x x x x x x x x x

Catherine Girlfriend Of Kyle'S Brother (Family Friend) July 29, 2009

THE DRAGONFLY STORY.xXx

Once, in a little pond, in the muddy water under the lily pads,
there lived a little water beetle in a community of water
beetles. They lived a simple and comfortable life in the pond
with few disturbances and interruptions
Once in a while, sadness would come to the community when one of
their fellow beetles would climb the stem of a lily pad and
would never be seen again. They knew when this happened; their
friend was dead, gone forever.

Then, one day, one little water beetle felt an irresistible urge
to climb up that stem. However, he was determined that he would
not leave forever. He would come back and tell his friends what
he had found at the top.
When he reached the top and climbed out of the water onto the
surface of the lily pad, he was so tired, and the sun felt so
warm, that he decided he must take a nap. As he slept, his body
changed and when he woke up, he had turned into a beautiful
blue-tailed dragonfly with broad wings and a slender body
designed for flying.
So, fly he did! And, as he soared he saw the beauty of a whole
new world and a far superior way of life to what he had never
known existed.
Then he remembered his beetle friends and how they were thinking
by now he was dead. He wanted to go back to tell them, and
explain to them that he was now more alive than he had ever been
before. His life had been fulfilled rather than ended.
But, his new body would not go down into the water. He could
not get back to tell his friends the good news. Then he
understood that their time would come, when they, too, would
know what he now knew. So, he raised his wings and flew off
into his joyous new life!xxxx


~Author Unknown~

Nicola Mum Of Kyle Coope (Mum) July 28, 2009

28TH JULY 2009

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♥ REMEMBERING ♥

♥ There will come a day

♥ when your tears of sorrow

♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...

♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...

♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...

♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.

♥ There Will Come A Day

♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...

♥ as a sunshower of the soul...

♥ a turning of the tide...

♥ a promise of peace.

♥ There will come a day when you will...

♥ risk loving...

♥ go on believing...

♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.

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♥ (Author Unknown) ♥

Jude Swaddle (Friend) July 28, 2009

26TH JULY 2009

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NIGHT NIGHT SWEETHEART, SWEET DREAMS. X

Jude Swaddle (Friend) July 26, 2009

hugs and kisses Kyle xxx

Trisha (Friend) July 26, 2009

22ND JULY 2009

❤ THINKING OF YOU TODAY AND EVERY DAY ❤


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Jude Swaddle (Friend) July 22, 2009

love you soooo much.XxX

morning sweetheart,just to let you know we are home.i will be comming to your garden soon.love and miss you sooooooo much.XxXxXxX

Nicola Mum Of Kyle Coope (Mum) July 20, 2009

LoveeYouKylee :) x x x

I Send a Kiss To The Skies Above, In It Contains All My Love, Catch It And Keep It Close To Your Heart, Love Keeps Us Together Whilst We Are Apart.
Lovee Now&Forever. x x x x x x x x x x x

Farrah Coope (Sister) July 20, 2009

LoveeYouKylee :) x x x

I Send a Kiss To The Skies Above, In It Contains All My Love, Catch It And Keep It Close To Your Heart, Love Keeps Us Together Whilst We Are Apart.
Lovee Now&Forever. x x x x x x x x x x x

Farrah Coope (Sister) July 20, 2009

19TH JULY 2009

Just letting you know I was here......

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to leave lots of love and kisses for you.xx

Jude Swaddle (Friend) July 19, 2009
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